Step 3: First Date
You need to take some time and do this first date right. First dates are no joke. They set the course.
You need to prepare before you date. This process could take months and even years. Start now!
Remember that she said yes to the date. All you need to do now is not mess anything up.
A Few Helpful Steps
You\’re about to go on a first date and you don\’t know what to do? I got your back. You can become a man using these tips.
Step 1 A lot of you guys think that just introducing yourself starts the first date. Well…it doesn\’t. A first date is when you are meeting each other at a specific location upon which you earlier agreed. Now how did you get into this situation? I have no idea. You shouldn\’t examine it too much either. It\’s time to move forward.
Step 2 To get this first date, I suppose you worked a question into your introduction, like, “Hey, do you want to grab Starbucks after this?” or, “Do you want to go look at my Batman card collection?” WRONG! that was a test. Under no circumstances are you to tell her you have a card collection or that you collect dolls of any kind.
Step 3 Side note here, if you have any type of toy collection, they\’d better be in mint condition being sold this weekend or you should throw them away. My goodness, you don\’t even want to be caught on Ebay will a doll, boys. Don\’t talk about anything along those lines during a first date.
Step 4 So you\’re on the first date. Remember she did say yes to meet you again. That means you didn\’t put out a creeper vibe. Well done. But you\’re not out of the weeds yet. You need some topics to keep the conversation moving. Like in Step 2: Approaching Women, have some conversation starters ready to go and be ready to answer your own questions too.
Step 5 I would recommend choosing a setting that is a little noisy with some people around like an outdoor festival, coffee shop, etc. Not a child play area. You do not want that type of distraction.
Step 6 You will want to find out as much as possible on this first date without being a weirdo and giving her a questionnaire. If she is an ax murderer, keep that going, who knows what fun that could bring..but that would be something you want to know on a first date. Start simple, where did she grow up, big house, small house, bro and sis, married, mom and dad, etc. Then go through high school sports, subject, move into college, major, favorite teachers, etc.
Step 7 Be prepared to answer all of your own questions. You want to make her feel at ease on your first date. This isn\’t an interview, so for all the questions you ask, prepare to respond based on something she says – that shows her that you are listening – and answer your own question.
Step 8 At the end of your first date, don\’t try to kiss her. You\’re a gentleman now.You need some class and to make her anticipated. You run full steam now, there is nothing for later.
Ending Words of Advice
Have a second date in mind and ask for a phone number if you don\’t all ready have it.