Step 5: The To Do List
Yes, we have a to do list too. But in a manly way.
If you stick to this to do list, you\’ll go far. If you deviate, there is no longer a guarantee.
Do not write this to do list down and stick it in your purse. Be a Man and memorize them.
A Few Helpful Steps
Better print these off and nail them to your wall…you do have a hammer and nails in the bedroom don\’t you?
Step 1 Be reliable. 5 minutes early is where you now live. If you said it, it becomes law to you. There is no compromise when it comes to reliability.
Step 2 Next on your to do list is to have expectations for yourself, and then don\’t disappoint yourself. You\’re a man. You can tell yourself something, and then do it. First thing you should tell yourself is to be reliable.
Step 3 Focus on her. If you are with her, you are not on your phone at this stage of the game. She has got to have your undivided attention. It\’s time to treat her like a princess. Especially in these first three months. Do not disappoint.
Step 4 If you are pursuing this woman because you are a man, then you will have her in your sights only. If you are trying to get your jollies from her and then from someone else later, this website is not for you. Read someplace else. That\’s what boys do. You\’re a man now, not a jolly huntin\’ boy. Get out\’a here. CHA CHA
Step 5 Opening the car door should be on your to do list. Use manners, be polite, sweet, fun, charming. Remember how you treated your younger brother or sister? The opposite of that! Right away!
Step 6 Eye contact. When you meet the parents, eye contact. Shake hands. And don\’t have a bad handshake. For heaven\’s sake, go buy yourself a better handshake if you have one of those flimsy ones.
Step 7 Continue perusing this website for new and updated ideas. That\’s called preparing. You need to start preparing dates in advance. If you\’re going to have a date on Friday, the preparation starts on Monday. That\’s four days to begin the date. Come up with a game or something, make where you are going a mystery and have her guess questions each day…each question giving another clue of where you are going. Women love the games.
Step 8 Keep a budget. This is very important. Do not live above your means. If you are a man, and you\’re dating her for keeps, she\’s going to figure you out. So go out with friends, let her see who you are in front of people, but the you that is being the best he can be for 3 months. That is a must. It doesn\’t have to be 5 star meals every time. Do some casual hangouts. Women love that. And you want to start getting to know her friends too.
Ending Words of Advice
First 1-2 months, keep lots of company around you. There is plenty of time to be alone, but if you want to get to know each other, it helps with company.